Too Hot this Summer? Try Ice Play!

Fuuuuck. It’s hot. That sticky, sweaty, sweltering, melty, hits you like you are opening the oven when you step outside kind or hot. I hate it. Makes me angry. Guess that means it’s time for me to both cool off and take my frustrations out on some subbies with some ice play!

Ice play is a type of BDSM sensory play that I always find myself coming back to. I love causing pain to my subbies. I love hearing them whimper. I love how pathetic they look when they are a shivery little mess on the floor. Ice does all of that so beautifully! All while being very accessible and one of the safer BDSM things to do to yourself! (There are some mild risks and you will need to be aware of sharp edges with melting ice. Use common sense, use your eyes and don’t ice yourself too long.)

Ice Play Punishments

Intrigued by ice play and want to give it a go? The following are some fun ice play ideas for you to try out! I’d love to hear which are your favorites, so be sure to leave a comment or let me know during our next session! 

The Icy Spoon

Freeze a couple of metal spoons for a minimum of two hours, after they are nice and frosty, you will use them for the most delightful icy nipple torment!  Press the spoons to your nipples and hold in place! I suggest filling a tall glass with ice to pop your metal spoons into to recharge between nipple icing. That way you can keep your ice play session going until you don’t even remember it’s hotter than the surface of the sun outside.

Ice Water Ball Bath

Fill a small bowl, preferably metal or ceramic, with ice and cold water and place on the floor. Kneel over the bowl, and lower yourself until your poor little filth filled testicles are fully submerged in their ice water ball bath! You may stroke while your balls are submerged. When you can’t take the icy bite any more, you may raise up, but absolutely NO TOUCHING of that fucking dick until your balls are back into their icy bath.

Ice Dildo

Take a condom and fill with water. Tie off the end like you would a water balloon and carefully insert a bamboo skewer through the tail. Put the condom into a tall glass with the skewer across the lip and freeze (you do not want the condom to freeze flat to prevent sharp edges, thus the kabob treatment). After the condom is frozen you have yourself an ice dildo which you can use to suck and fuck! If you find you enjoy the sensation, I highly suggest investing in a glass dildo. You’ll get to enjoy the ice play fuck without the watery mess! (Not to mention that glass dildos also can be warmed for a whole other kind of sensory play! Come back to this blog in January when I am freezing my ass off and we’ll talk about that then LMAO)

Frozen Panties

I didn’t forget my sissies! Take a pair of panties, something with a bit more coverage (think boy shorts or bikini briefs, not g strings or thongs for this one!). Soak through and gently wring out. Freeze. The next time you are a naughty girl that needs a punishment – you will wear those panties until they thaw and dry!

Ice Queen’s DIY Pocket Pussy

Here’s an ice play punishment that I especially like inflicting upon little dicked losers and cucks! Take a bottle of a silicone based lubricant, and pop in the freezer for a few hours until it is nice and frosty. Fill a rubber dish glove with crushed ice and a very ample amount of your ice cold lube. Fuck. The. Glove. And remember while you are slipping your dick into the icy depths of your DIY ice queen pocket pussy, that REAL men get the REAL thing, in all of it’s hot, warm, engulfing, amazingness.

Until next time kinksters!

– Ms. Nadia