In order to be shamed by erotic degradation, the submissive must be connected to the status quo. In our natural state we are shameless and capable of anything. The training of society teaches us some things just aren’t acceptable and are worthy of shame. So to be shamed by words or deeds one must understand that they are acting outside the norm and would be shunned if discovered. That fear of exposure drives the male submissive outside himself a bit… once one line is crossed it’s always a simple step to another.
To be taunted with words that connote a lack of worth and value touches that part inside that longs to be more. By stripping that away, the submissive returns to that natural shameless state we’re all born to. He rejects the world’s ideas of what’s correct and uses his weakness to achieve something. When he opens himself to the fact he’s nothing he liberates that part of himself which just doesn’t give a damn… and allows himself to feel an undiluted sense of pleasure and satisfaction. Of course shame returns once the submissive orgasms, but in the moment of truth he transcends himself and preconceived ideas of what he should be.
An erotic degradation session requires trust and a type of knowing that involves delving deep into the mind of the submissive subject. Peeling back layers and revealing the triggers for arousal coded inside his psyche requires a soft, slow hand. A skillful mix of seduction and interrogation often unearth the most delicious beginnings for the current submissive state of mind. I love to interview my erotic humiliation junkies and pull out the very thoughts and hidden fantasies that haunt them… then use them against him for my pleasure… and his own. 
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