Small Cock Humiliation... Origin of a Fetish

Many men have delusions concerning their penis size. While some carry around an exaggerated sense that their cock is huge and women should drop to their knees and worship, this is rarely the case. Conversely, some men underestimate the normality of their member, opting instead to exaggerate in the other direction. Rarely do men say their penis size is satisfactory and mean it. Tonight, we’ll be exploring the fascinating fetish of small cock humiliation. We’ll delve deep into the motivations and experiences that convince men they don’t quite measure up.

Medically, a four inch wonder isn’t a problem. After all, if the mini-member can make it inside and ejaculate, most doctors concerned primarily with the physiological aspects of reproduction consider him a success. He can mate and fertilize the female, so there’s no technical problem. What most medical professionals fail to consider is that in pack hierarchy (and yes, humans ARE pack animals), beta and omega males have the least chance of winning reproductive rights. The weak, the submissive and the physically inferior are most often the lowest of the pack members. While they provide key support for their communities, most remain unmated in favor of the dominant alpha male who’s sole purpose is to protect and seed the females of the species.

So what does that mean? The beta and omega males are often left to provide emotional support, while the alpha male fulfills his purpose by leading and fucking the cream of the female crop, thus ensuring his superior genetics are passed on to the next generation. Reproduction is a primary drive, the drive that provides both humans and animal societies fresh new blood with the strongest genetic advantages possible. The physically superior win the right to reproduce by might. And so they should. Where does that leave the beta and omega male? Left in the back of the pack. Many animals have ritualized contests to ensure only the best of the best breed. Humanity is no different.

Where does the feeling of inferiority come from or the assumption that the physically inferior don’t deserve to breed? It’s not even that, most just never earn the chance. And even those who may be adequate often underestimate their size, skill and prowess. This is a situation unique to humans. So where does it come from and how does it differ from our friends in the wild? Humans are psychological creatures. Humans, males especially, imprint on sexual patterns early on, usually triggered by some event in adolescence that both arouses and confuses. Sometimes this inciting event convinces the male in question he’s inadequate… and most of the time, the humiliation of that assumption often becomes an arousal trigger. The feelings that arouse him lead to shame creating a vicious circle of shame, guilt and introverted behavior.

Freud had a theory, though most of his work is discredited now that we know more and more about what makes humanity tick… but you can’t throw the baby out with the bathwater. Some of his theories make perfect sense while examined from a fetish femdom point of view. So what would convince a boy he was worthless and what would he find arousing about it? Let’s explore, shall we?

According to Freud, males suffer from several forms of penis envy or small penis anxiety. Men are smart enough to realize that a larger member offers more satisfaction to women, both consciously and subconsciously. While many say size doesn’t matter, many men remain unconvinced noticing those men with large cocks get ahead further and faster than those less endowed. The ancient worship of phallus lives on in art and culture where those with such outward signs of their masculinity are revered and respected. As these realizations are studied further, more and more evidence points to the certainty this has always been the case in patriarchal societies like our own. Also, the sexual revolution aggravated the situation as more and more women began speaking out on the importance of penis size when choosing both casual and serious lovers.

Added to the dilemma, many man subconsciously carry anxiety. Usually beginning when they realize girls don’t have the same equipment. Layer this with Jr. seeing Daddy’s junk while he’s minuscule and Daddy is a full grown man convince him he’ll never be large, so he underestimates his own penis and feels ashamed, weak and lacking in masculinity compared to his Dad, the ultimate symbol of manhood in a young man’s life. Combine this with a myriad of penis enlargement quackery, it’s no wonder that men who feel inadequate turn to cock mockery as a strong fetish. After all, if you can’t beat the messages the world sends out… agree, acquiesce and enjoy knowing your cock is unworthy, unloved and gets no one off but you.

When puberty hits, boys find out that not even all the guys their age are created equal. Communal showers incite the problem, creating a potential den of humiliation for the less than endowed boy. He looks around and sees boys developing while he’s left with his boy dick. He tries to hide, ashamed, but the more he tries, the more the larger boys notice his discomfort. Like animals in the wild, they sense weakness and go for the lowest common denominator. And it often imprints on the little man’s ego, turning the shame and humiliation into a sexual thrill. This often continues to adult hood, going to the gym is often an exhilarating and thoroughly humiliating thing for the small dicked man to do. He can’t help notice walking through all those men who dwarf his mini-member. Often, when they notice his arousal, even more humiliation follows.

Exaggerating the problem even more, this is the time boys traditionally “explore” with girls their age. Those girls aren’t often tactful and say cruel things, often without realizing it… or realizing the effect their laughter, scorn and cock mockery have on their partner. This too adds another layer… of longing and knowing they could never satisfy. Of worthlessness that they aren’t a “Real Man”, that the best they can hope for is a wife one day who’ll tolerate his shortcomings… and hopefully not make a cuckold of him… or maybe even hoping he’ll end up a cuckold husband.

So what does all this mean exactly? Well, small cock humiliation is often the first step in the path of complete arousal by sexual humiliation. One thing leads to another and before he knows it, a humiliation junkie is born. Or even a cocksucker. Many imprint on the object of their desire as well, not just to have a large cock, but to HAVE carnal knowledge of a large cock. Those desires often lead to the little man fantasizing about serving such a superior man sexually. While in his fantasies, the bisexuality is often forced, most often this is not the case. These humiliation sluts know that sucking cock is their ultimate desire and forced bi is merely a game they play to absolve themselves of responsibility.

My next explorations will touch on cuckolding, forced bi scenarios and femdom cravings that lead these tiny wonders to crave the depths of humiliation they dream of. If you have questions or comments, feel free to pass them on. I’m always happy to hear a man’s take on fetish and fantasy… especially if it’s one so near and dear to my wicked imagination as small cock humiliation. Part two tomorrow night will be on Cuckolding… stay tuned for more of your Goddess’s take on the oh so interesting dichotomy of female domination and male submission and humiliation.

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